where is the best place to live in this world and how can u find your soul mate?

i'm 25,i lived in 6 countryes till now,i'm tired and got no direction of where to go or what to do,i feel like a vegetable.what should i do?......oh,and i'm a girl. .....a funny pretty one too. .... i've always been alone just waiting for that thing...that special thing...should i still wait for it or choose one of my old "victims" and make a life so i wont waste any more time looking for it?...kinda stupid,ha?!

Public Comments

1. That's alot of questions. Don t wait......and it will come....The best place to live....is where you have the most friends at and when you feel happy and comfortable at....and maybe when you will get there....love will come faster then you will know...oh and don t settle on people who, you don t feel will give you what you need.
2. Never choose and "old victim". I am a 24 year old female who has been married to my soulmate for over a year. Your soulmate will come...it can be in 10 days or in 10 years...but not everyone has a soulmate. Some people have a perfect loving relationship, but are not soulmates, and there's nothing wrong with that. Destiny only takes you so far. As to what you should do...you have a lot of traveling experience from living in 6 countries. Maybe you should be a travel agent? Also, another good way to think about this is: If you never needed to work a day in your life again...what would you do? If your answer is you'd go to the beach and tan all day- maybe you should be a lifeguard, or a nanny for a family that lives near the beach...you get the point. Good luck!
3. Relax, you're 25 not 65! How amazing that you've had the opportunity to live in 6 different countries, so many people don't ever get the chance to visit another country, let alone live in one. The best place to live, is where you feel comfortable & happy; a place that you can call home! Maybe instead of focusing so much on what you are going to do, you should focus on what you are doing; to stop and smell the roses. Try to enoy life and your own company. Love will come when you least expect it, it's like watching a pot of water and waiting for it to boil. My advise (and I speak from personal experience, where I thought, as well as my family and friends, that I would NEVER find the right guy) you need to relax, enjoy life and what it has to offer, learn to have fun by yourself, learn to love life, learn to love yourself, and when you're not looking, love WILL find you!