I am 25 years old, and live in a big city. I want to know the best way to meet new friends here, as well as meeting women. I am not into the whole bar scene or anything, I work normal hours during the week at a good job, have a car, etc... but I just don't know where to go. If someone could help me I would very much appreciate it. I am 25 years old, and live in a big city. I want to know the best way to meet new friends here, as well as meeting women. I am not into the whole bar scene or anything, I work normal hours during the week at a good job, have a car, etc... but I just don't know where to go. If someone could help me I would very much appreciate it. Ok let me tell a little bit more. I am a very talkative person, and talk with people almost everywhere I go. I am in sales, and this is the cause of it. Now, I DO NOT go to clubs or bars, and don't want to meet people a those places. I just thought I would clarify this a little bit more. I am just looking for places to go :D